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"Finding yourself" is not really how it works. “找回迷失的自我”并非正确的思考方式。 You aren't a ten-dollar bill in last winter's coat pocket. 别把自己当成一张十美元的钞票，隐藏在去年冬天穿过的大衣口袋里。 You are also not lost. 你也并没有迷失自己。 Your true self is right there, 你真正的自我就在此处 buried under cultural conditioning , 它被深深的埋藏起来了，在它之上覆盖着文化规训 other people's opinions, 他人的界定 and inaccurate conclusions you drew as a kid 还有你孩童时期得到的模糊的教训 that became your beliefs about who you are. 正是这些成为你对自己的认识 "Finding yourself" is actually returning to yourself. “找回迷失的自我”其实就是回归自我 An unlearning, an excavation , a remembering who you were 未受教化的，等待你发觉的，如同一段模糊的回忆一般的自我 before the world got its hands on you. 在世界磨光你的棱角之前的自我 | 
