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有句老话，叫“男怕选错行，女怕选错郎”。 There is an old saying that "men are afraid of choosing the wrong line, women are afraid of choosing the wrong man". 当然，这是从前。现在不怕了。选错行可以改行，选错郎也可以离婚么！不过，改行毕竟费事，离婚也很麻烦。能不改不离，最好。 Of course, this is the past. Now I'm not afraid. You can change your business if you choose the wrong line, or you can divorce if you choose the wrong Lang! However, after all, it's difficult to change careers, and divorce is also very troublesome. It's best not to change. 何况还有改不了离不掉的。就算改得了离得掉，那损失也无法追回，那影响也无法消除。夫妻双方是会相互影响的。康德甚至说一对夫妻相处日久，就连相貌都会变得接近起来，让人觉得对象对象，当真“一对就像”(其实是他们的言行举止神态表情都有了共同的情调)。面如此，而况乎心？遇人不淑，那可真是后患无穷，岂是含糊得的？ What's more, there is something that can't be changed. Even if we can get rid of it, we can't recover the loss and eliminate the influence. Husband and wife will influence each other. Kant even said that when a couple get along with each other for a long time, even their looks will become close, which makes people feel that the object is really "a pair of like" (in fact, their expressions and expressions have a common mood). Face so, but not mind? If people are not nice, it's a real afterthought. Isn't it vague? | 
