我们总站在富足的地方悯惜贫穷,总躺在安全的地方怒斥邪恶,总在五十步笑百步后呼唤远离冷漠,总在血痕淡去后才忙着计算生命的价值。 We always stand in the rich place to pity the poor, always lie in the safe place to denounce the evil, always call to stay away from indifference after 50 steps of laughing, always busy calculating the value of life after the blood trace is gone. 于是,我们俯身怜悯的姿态伤害了别人的自尊。 As a result, our pitying posture hurts other people's self-esteem. 每次灾难过后,都有太多的人争先领养孤儿;当这片热潮过去,又有太多的孤儿陷入苦难。据心理学家分析,领养孤儿要考虑自己的经济状况,家庭氛围要与孩子原先的家庭相似,教育方式、家长性格都要与孤儿相适宜。但是,太多的人仅凭自己一腔热血,用热心换回的却是家庭的分裂。孩子们再次面临家园破碎的痛苦,伤害再次打击无辜孩子柔弱的心灵,善良由甜蜜变为苦涩。 After every disaster, there are too many people competing to adopt orphans first; when this upsurge passes, there are too many orphans in distress. According to the analysis of psychologists, the adoption of orphans should consider their own economic situation, the family atmosphere should be similar to the original family of children, and the education mode and parents' personality should be suitable for orphans. However, too many people only rely on their own cavity of blood, with enthusiasm in exchange for the division of the family. The children once again face the pain of the broken home, the hurt strikes the weak heart of the innocent children again, and the kindness changes from sweet to bitter. |