处在这个大千世界里,我们无时无刻不在与别人打交道,然而如何对待他人,完全依靠我们的态度,在许多时候,我们帮助他人只在举手投足之间就可以完成。 In this vast world, we deal with others all the time. However, how to treat others completely depends on our attitude. In many cases, we can help others only by doing everything. 在举手投足之间的帮助,可能会改变他的一生。 The help between every move may change his life. 林清玄在一家牛肉面馆吃面时,老板拿着报纸问林清玄是否还记得他,林清玄摇头。老板说:“我就是当初你表扬过的小偷。”原来当初林清玄在报纸上说这小偷思维严密,头脑灵活,应该是干什么都能成功的人,就是这样一句话改变了这小偷的一生,他放弃了偷骗,干起了正当的事业,并且越干越好,小偷的一生就这样被林清玄的一句话所改变。当初林清玄也一定没有想到这么不经意间说的话却被他牢记,并给他带来了这么大的影响。如果不是林清玄在那举手投足之间的一句表扬与称赞,如果林清玄和别人一样对小偷进行指责,那么小偷仍旧是小偷,仍旧会祸害社会,就不会有如今的幸福与成功。很多时候我们在举手投足间帮助了别人,很有可能改变他的一生。 When Lin Qingxuan was eating noodles in a beef noodle restaurant, the boss asked Lin Qingxuan whether he remembered him with a newspaper. Lin Qingxuan shook his head. The boss said, "I was the thief you praised." Originally, Lin Qingxuan said in the newspaper that the thief was a man with strict thinking and flexible mind, who should be able to succeed in everything. It was such a sentence that changed the life of the thief. He gave up cheating and started a proper career. The better he did, the better the thief's life was changed by Lin Qingxuan's sentence. At the beginning, Lin Qingxuan must have never thought that what he said inadvertently was remembered by him and brought him such a great influence. If not for Lin Qingxuan's praise and praise, if Lin Qingxuan criticizes the thief like others, then the thief is still a thief, still will harm the society, there will be no happiness and success today. Most of the time, we have helped others with every move, which is likely to change his life. |