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我时常听到有人沾沾自喜地说自己“三生有幸”时，就纳闷：这人只有今生，哪来“三生”呢？随着时间的流逝，我才慢慢地感觉到“三”的学问的确不小。譬如，“三思而后行”，“举一反三”，“三人行，则必有我师”等短语，其中的“三”字，既概括了社会生活现象、人生经验，或丰富的人生哲理，也蕴藏着许多智慧，的确耐人寻味，引人思考。? I often hear that someone complacently says that they are "three lucky", and I wonder: This is the only life of this person, where is "three lucky"? With the passage of time, I slowly feel that the knowledge of "three" is not small. For example, phrases such as "think before you act", "draw inferences from one example", "three people act, then there must be my teacher", among which the word "three" not only generalizes the social life phenomenon, life experience, or rich philosophy of life, but also contains a lot of wisdom, which is really intriguing and thought-provoking. ? 三国时，刘备为成就大业，“三顾茅庐”，恳切地三请诸葛卧龙出山，演绎出“三顾频烦天下计，两朝开济老臣心”的佳话，奠定了天下三国鼎立的格局。这“三”里面的韵味告诉我们：“精诚所至，金石为开”。要想获得别人的帮助和支持，就必须用诚意待别人，哪怕一再被对方拒绝。? During the Three Kingdoms period, Liu Bei sincerely invited Zhuge Wolong to go out of the mountain to achieve great achievements, and deduced the saying that "three times of frequent visits annoy the world's plan, and two dynasties of Kaiji old minister's heart", which laid a pattern of Three Kingdoms in the world. The charm in the "three" tells us: "to be honest, to be open". If you want to get help and support from others, you must treat others with sincerity, even if they refuse again and again. ? | 
