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I had to put the following quote into practice 25 years ago 25年前，我曾反复念诵一句话 when I was asked to give a speech at my precious friend Evy's wedding. 因为我应邀参加从前的好友Evy的婚礼，必须作一番演讲 "Sometimes the best thing you can do is “有时，你能做的最好的事，” not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess, “就是不要思考，不要猜忌，不要想象，不要沉迷” just breathe and have faith “你只需要深呼吸，保持信念” that everything will work out for the best." “要相信，一切都会变成最好的样子” You may wonder why on earth would it be so difficult? 你可能会问，为什么这件事对于我如此艰难？ Well, there's a good reason why. 我有充足的理由 Our son, Todd, was a very close friend with Evy. 我们的儿子Todd一直与Evy非常要好 After Todd's death, Evy and I became close friends too. Todd死后，Evy和我也成为了亲密的朋友。 Evy would stopover at our home and spend time with me. Evy时常来我家串门，陪着我一起度过难熬的时光。 Every year on the date of Todd's death 每年Todd的忌日 Evy would send me a white rose in memory of Todd. | 
