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王虹同学：你好！ Wang Hong: Hello! 你的来信我已经看到，知道了你因为父母的阻拦而没有参加上同学的生日party，为此你很是苦恼。你此时此刻的心情，知心姐姐能够体会得到，下面我就来谈谈我的一点想法，希望你能从苦恼的心境中解脱出来，变得快乐。 I've read your letter, and I know that you didn't attend the birthday party of your classmates because of your parents' obstruction, so you are very distressed. Your mood at this moment can be realized by the bosom sister. Now I'll talk about my thoughts. I hope you can get rid of the distressed mood and become happy. 其实你所遇到的事情不仅仅是你一个人，有很多同学都向我来过信，诉说他们心中的苦恼。我们不妨先把这种苦恼放在一边，分析一下其中的原因。爸爸妈妈之所以不让你去，一是因为时间太晚，你的安全成了他们心中的牵挂；二是举行生日party，怕你们当中掺杂着他们心中所谓的“差生”，会给你带来不良方面的影响；三是怕你们从中沾染不良的社会风气，从小就开始礼尚往来。从以上三方面原因来讲，你的爸爸妈妈是非常爱你的。 In fact, what you encounter is not just you alone. Many students have sent letters to me to tell their troubles. Let's put aside this kind of distress and analyze the reasons. The reason why mom and Dad don't let you go is that, first, it's too late, your safety has become a concern in their hearts; second, they hold birthday parties, for fear that the so-called "poor students" in their hearts will bring you bad influence; third, they are afraid that you will get bad social atmosphere from it, and start courteous exchanges from an early age. From the above three reasons, your parents love you very much. | 
