You hate the sound of him chewing and are a little bummed he still doesn't know your favorite flower (peonies!), but are those deal breakers or just signs of being with someone for a bajillion years? According to Marina Voron, licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship red flags have less to do with actual behavior and more to do with the feelings and intentions behind them. Here, Voron shares reasons it may be time to cue Adele and call it quits. 你不喜欢他嚼东西时发出的声音、对于他仍然不知道你最喜欢什么花(牡丹)这一点你也有点小失望,但这些究竟是风险点还是只是和某人在一起很多年的迹象呢?持证婚姻与家庭治疗师玛丽娜·沃龙表示,感情中的危险信号与实际行为没什么关系,反而与行为后的感受和意图有很大关系。在此,沃龙分享了一些理由,可能是时候提醒阿黛尔,宣布这段感情的结束了。 |