If you don't want to do something for somebody, you should manage to say "No." in the first place. 如果你不想为一个人做什么事情,你一开始就应该说“不。” The moment you give in, you've given them the impression that they can use your time as long as they try hard enough. 你一旦让步,就会让他们以为只要多做些努力就能占用你的时间。 |