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俗话说，祸从口出。职场高手往往都懂得什么该说，什么不该说。要把握说得太多和说得太少之间的分寸很难，但是管好自己的嘴也同样不容易。如果想在职场一帆风顺，以下12件事是你永远也不该吐露的。 You can’t build a strong professional network if you don’t open up to your colleagues; but doing so is tricky, because revealing the wrong things can have a devastating effect on your career. 如果你不和同事坦诚相待，就不可能有稳固的职业关系网。但是这个分寸其实并不好把握，因为表露不当的话会对你的职业造成严重后果。 Sharing the right aspects of yourself in the right ways is an art form. Disclosures that feel like relationship builders in the moment can wind up as obvious no-nos with hindsight. 该让别人看到自己哪些方面？怎么分享这类才是正确的方式？这堪称一门艺术。有些事情在当时说出来可能觉得有助于增进同事友谊，然而事后来看可能是显而易见的禁忌。 The trick is to catch yourself before you cross that line, because once you share something, there is no going back. 秘诀就是在你“过界”之前管好嘴巴，因为“说出去的话泼出去的水”，一旦说出就再也收不回了。 TalentSmart has tested more than a million people and found that the upper echelons of top performance are filled with people who are high in emotional intelligence (90% of top performers, to be exact). Emotionally intelligent people are adept at reading others, and this shows them what they should and shouldn’t reveal about themselves at work. | 
