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Sure, you might think that if you were truly in love with someone, you wouldn't be able to have feelings for someone else. But sometimes this can actually happen - and it can be emotionally draining, as your heart gets pulled in two directions. 当然，你可能会想：如果你真的爱着某人，你是不可能对其他人有感觉的。但有时候这种情况的确会发生--如果两个人都在牵动着你的心，那你可能会觉得筋疲力尽。 Though, it is worth noting the difference between lust and love, as lust might represent more physical, sexual chemistry with a partner, and it's likely to be a more immediate, short-term affair. (Here's a guide to knowing if your love is real.) 虽然，了解欲望和爱之间的区别十分值得，因为欲望可能更注重与另一半在身体和性生活方面的契合，而且也更有可能是一种短暂的、瞬间即逝的婚外情。（跟着我们的指南，看看你是不是真的爱他/她吧。） | 
