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Few relationship questions are as polarizing as whether or not you should stay friends with an ex. Anecdotal evidence feeds arguments on both sides — but what do the experts say? 是否应该与前任保持友谊？对这一两性关系问题的答案非常罕见地两极分化，传闻轶事更激化了双方的争论，那专家怎么看待这一问题呢？ Rachel Sussman, a New York City-based psychotherapist, advises caution when it comes to staying friends, but says there are couples for whom it works; ultimately, she says, it's "an individual determination". Nonetheless, Sussman says there are some guidelines all exes should follow after a breakup. 纽约心理治疗师雷切尔·萨斯曼建议，应谨慎对待与前任保持友谊这一问题， 不过，对于一些情侣或夫妇来说，与前任保持友谊不成问题。归根到底，这只是“个人选择”。不过，在处理与前任关系的问题上，萨斯曼给出了以下几点准则。 | 
