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Q: My best friend is rude to other people when we're out - doesn't say please or thank you, doesn't tip, doesn't hold the door open for other people, doesn't care if she talks loudly on the phone in a crowd. I see other people reacting to her, and it makes me embarrassed to be around her. Should I say something? 问题：在外面的时候，闺蜜对别人的态度总是很粗鲁--不会说请或谢谢、不给小费、不会为他人扶门、不会介意自己在人群中大声打电话。看到其他人对她做出的反应，我不经感到尴尬。我是不是该说些什么？ You absolutely should let your friend know that you find her behaviours disrespectful to others and to you and it stresses you out. You have to set a boundary here: That when you are out together, a standard of manners must be upheld. 你当然应该让你的朋友知道：她的行为对他人、对你都是一种不尊重，会让你感到压力。你必须划定一条界限：当你们一起出门的时候，她必须要有礼貌。 | 
