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If you've waded into the world of online dating, you know that it can be a real bummer. The terrible behavior that it normalizes-ghosting-is emotional abuse in its purest form, and it inevitably has a negative impact on emotional well-being. 你可能对网恋世界满怀期待，但你也可能会非常失望。一些细思极恐的行为在网恋世界中却极为正常--神秘消失--这些行为是赤裸裸的情感虐待，无疑会对你的情感幸福带来负面影响。 A 2011 study found that rejection stimulates the same somatosensory brain system as physical pain. In the same way that holding hands can alleviate physical pain, being ghosted can cause it. Another 2017 study of 1,300 college students found that those who used Tinder regularly tended to have lower self-esteem and more body image issues than those who didn't. 2011年的一项研究发现：被拒会刺激体觉大脑系统，这种疼痛不亚于其对身体带来的疼痛。就像牵手可以缓解身体疼痛一般，神秘消失会带来疼痛。2017年对1300位大学生的研究发现：定期使用Tinder的人相比不用Tinder的人自尊心更低、身体形象问题更多。 | 
