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I've been married for eight years and a parent for six. I'm not an expert at either, but I've made enough mistakes to speak to what doesn't work. My marriage is far from ruined, but each and every one of these parenting stumbles has put a strain on my partnership. Thankfully there's room for mistakes and friction in a strong relationship, but left unchecked these argument starters could become marriage enders. Nobody is the perfect parent or the perfect partner and trying to be good at both is no easy feat, but avoiding these pitfalls certainly can't hurt. 我结婚八年、育儿六年。虽然我既不是婚姻专家，也不是育儿专家，但我犯过太多的错误，现在可以谈谈什么是没有用的。我离离婚还早着呢，但每一次的育儿错误都使我们的感情关系万分紧张。幸运的是，强大的感情关系中是有犯错误和摩擦的空间的，但是放任这些争论不管不顾只会造成婚姻的终结。没有人是完美的父母或伴侣，成为一位优秀的父母和伴侣并非易事，但是避开这些陷阱并没有什么坏处。 | 
