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Is it okay to love someone knowing you can't be with them? 你明知道无法和他/她在一起，却还是去爱他/她，这样好吗？ 获得4.5k好评的答案@Gene Spafford Of course you can love someone without spending the future with them…and you don't need permission to do so! 你当然可以去爱一个无法共度未来的人······而且你做这件事并不需要得到他人首肯。 However, a key thing is to avoid wistfully wishing that you could be with that person if that is not to be. Accept what fate has given you, and maybe seek out others to love, too. Love is a renewable resource. 但是，关键是你要避免极度期盼，不要期待假如换种情况，你就可以和那个人在一起。接受你的命运吧，也许你可以找到其他人来爱。爱是可再生资源。 获得6好评的答案@Elsa Schraeder Sure, it is ok to love someone knowing that you will never be with them. However, be careful that this love doesn't morph into an emotional block which prevents you from finding and loving someone who you can be with. 当然可以，你可以去爱一个明知道永远不会在一起的人。但是，你要注意，不要让这份爱成为你的感情障碍，阻止你寻找并爱上一个可以与你在一起的人。 获得54好评的答案@Anshi Akanksha Yes! 可以！ | 
