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说到双十一，大家的脑海里就充满了“买买买”，但是大家不要忘了，双十一也是光棍节呀！很多人都觉得自己的人挺好的，可是为什么还是单身呢？Quora上的网友们也有类似的疑问，比如I'm a nice guy. Why can't I meet a nice girl and fall in love?（我是个好男人，为什么我碰不上好女孩来谈恋爱呢？）。看看大家都是怎么回答的吧！ 获得338好评的答案@Marie Stein Brace yourself. I'm not nice. 勇敢面对这个事实吧：我并不是那么好。 You say you're a nice guy. You want to know how come you can't meet a nice girl and fall in love.Stop kidding yourself. And stop whining. There is no such thing as a "nice guy". And if there was, you're not it. 你说你是个好男人，你想知道为什么自己遇不上好女孩然后爱上她。不要再骗自己了，不要在发牢骚了，这世上并没有什么“好男人”，就算有，也不是你。 For one thing, nice guys don't whine about being nice guys and being overlooked. They're too nice to ever consider blaming others for their own poor luck-to-date, and too nice to ever be such a condescending egoist as to think that women don't know what's good for them and prefer bad boy. 首先，好男人是不会因为自己是个好男人却被无视而大发牢骚。他们人很好，所以他们是不会因为自己恋爱运不顺而抱怨别人，他们也不是那种故作谦逊的自我主义者，觉得女人们根本不知道对她们来说什么才是有用的，认为她们更喜欢坏男孩。 | 
