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My 18 month old son has a slight preference for his mother. How can I win his favor? 我18个月大的儿子喜欢他妈妈多一点，我要怎么做才能赢得他的喜爱？ 获得216好评的答案@Marc Bodnick That is totally normal. My recommendation: 这很正常。我的建议是： Be chill. The woman (your wife; his mom) played a much bigger role than you did in his early life, so you are pretty much screwed if you expect an even playing field for the first few years. 冷静点。这位女性（你的妻子，他的妈妈）在他早年的生活中扮演的角色比你重要得多，所以你几乎是在钻牛角尖，即使你想在最开始的几年作为游戏场也不会让他更喜欢你。 As a rule, you should pretty much let him be with his mother whenever he wants; that's the best way to build trust. 一般来说，只要他想，你就应该让他和他的妈妈在一起，这是建立信任的最佳方式。 When you are with him, do a really good job of taking care of him -- feeding him, changing him, putting him to sleep, etc. Get him to trust that you're competent and confident. 当你和他在一起的时候，你就要好好照顾他——给他喂饭、给他换尿布、哄他睡觉等等，让他相信你是个称职且自信的爸爸。 When you are with him alone, you should be able to distract him quickly from thinking about mom. | 
