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1.Talk Travel, Not Movies 1.谈旅游，别谈电影 In a study by Richard Wiseman, less than 9% of couples that talked movies wanted a second date vs 18% of couples that talked about travel. 在理查德·怀斯曼做的一项研究中，想要第二次约会的人中，双方谈论电影的不到9%，而双方谈论旅行的占了18%。 When talking about movies, less than 9 percent of the pairs wanted to meet up again, compared to 18 percent when participants spoke about the top topic—travel… the conversations about travel tended to revolve around great holidays and dream destinations, and that makes people feel good and so appear more attractive to one another. 如果约会时谈论电影，那只有不到9%的约会双方会想再次见面，相比之下，如果谈论旅游，就有18%的人想要第二次约会…关于旅游的对话往往围绕着休闲的假期和梦想的旅游胜地而展开，旅游度假这个话题使人感觉良好，这个话题能让双方都互相更有吸引力。 2.It’s Not Just What You Talk About, It’s How You Talk 2.不在于你谈什么，而在于你怎么谈 Add to what they say and bounce the ball back.This is how to have smooth first date conversation. 把对方谈的话题进行补充，再把问题抛给对方，进行新一轮交流。这样才是第一次约会顺利交谈愉快聊天的方式。 | 
