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I just met this guy, he said he really likes me and wants to date me. I told him I don't have any special feeling for him yet, and it is too fast. 我只是和他刚认识，他就说他真的很喜欢我，想和我交往。我说我对他并没有什么特殊的感觉，而且这进展太快了。 He told me it was okay, but never contacted me again. What does this mean? 他告诉我这没什么，但是他再也没有联系过我。他什么意思？ 获得941好评的答案@Sudarshana Bhattacharya Stop looking at men as just some male creature and start respecting them as human beings. To be honest, this guy is really a gentleman. He didn't bother you anymore after you rejected him. If you're interested in him, ask him out confidently. There's zero shame in that. If you believe that he should keep trying despite your arrogant refusals then I'm sorry to say that you're not eligible for him. And I'm even more sorry to say that he must have found some true lady by this time who treats him like a king. 不要把男人看做单纯的雄性生物，你应该要把他们作为人类来尊重，说实话，这个男人真的很绅士，在你拒绝他之后就没有来骚扰你。如果你对他有兴趣，你可以自信地邀请他去约会，这没什么好丢脸的。如果你认为他应该不顾你傲慢的拒绝，而是要继续追求你，那么很遗憾，我要说，你跟他不合适。不仅如此，我还要说，他现在一定找到了那位真心待他、尊重他的女士。 | 
