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Being likable is entirely under your control. All it takes is the ability to pick up a few key social skills that build emotional intelligence (EQ). 受欢迎与否完全是可以由你自己来掌控的。你只需掌握一些用来修炼情商的社交小技巧即可。 To help you out, we sifted through the Quora thread, "What are useful social skills that can be picked up quickly?" and highlighted our favorite answers. 为了帮助你，我们仔细筛选了Quora上“能够快速习得且行之有效的社交技巧有哪些？”的所有回答，并且为你整理出了我们最喜欢的答案。 Here are seven simple ways to start crafting a "million-dollar personality" and be the most likable person in the room: 以下7个简单的技巧便可以帮你打造一个“百万美元性格”，让你人气爆棚。 1. Make eye contact. 1. 眼神交流。 "It is an idiotically simple thing, but it remains one of the most impactful life hacks around," writes Quora user Brad Porter. "The most attractive quality in a person is confidence. But 'be confident' is not very good advice. Instead, find the best proxy for confidence, in terms of interactive behavior. And that's eye contact." “这是一个不能再简单的技巧了，但是它仍旧是最有效的生活技巧之一，”Quora用户布拉德•波特写道。“一个人最有吸引力的品质就是自信。但是只是简单的说一句“要自信”，这并不是一个好建议。相反，就交流而言，你可以将自信更加具体化，即眼神交流。” | 
