5 Tips for Accepting College Rejections 面对高校拒信的5个建议 For a lot of young people, the first really big letdown of life comes with being denied by their college of choice. All of the disappointment can be really tough to take, but there is a bright side and it's all going to be okay. Here are some tips to help you through. 对很多年轻人来讲,人生面对的第一次比较大的失望,便是收到申请高校的拒信。任何失望都令人难以接受,但这也有好的一面,这一切终将过去。下面是帮助你度过难关的一些建议: 1. Know that it's normal, especially these days. 1.现在的社会,失败乃人生常事 A lot of people don't get accepted by their first choice school, or even their second or third choices. It's been happening forever. Give yourself a break. You're entering college during a difficult time, and a lot of students are going through the same stuff you're going through. 很多学生第一志愿,甚至二三志愿都会被拒绝,这再平常不过。放松心情,你在上大学这件事上碰了钉子,其他学生也正遭遇同样的事情。 2. Take a good long look around. 2.看向你的周围 Look around, talk to your friends, and notice that yes, people are excited, and yes, people are terrified. Not everyone is moving into something that they're feeling really great about, and many are feeling a little down on themselves about that. |