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How To Make Friends: This Will Subtly Help People Open Up 怎样交朋友：无形之中帮你变外向 When people tell each other something intimate, it deepens the relationship. 当人们告诉彼此很亲密的一些事情的时候，能够加深相互之间的感情。 Laughter encourages people to open up and this is the secret to how to make friends, a new study finds. 一项新研究发现，笑声能鼓励人们变得外向起来，这就是交朋友的秘诀。 People in the study were more likely to disclose something personal about themselves after laughing together, although they didn't realise it. 这项研究中的人更能在一起大笑过后更能说一些私人的话题，尽管他们并没有意识到这一点。 "Self-disclosure has long been regarded as critical to relationship development and is typically considered as an exchange, where intimacies are traded as a means of deepening and developing relationships. "自我公开好久以来就被认为是人际关系发展的至关重要的因素，通常会被当做交换，亲密是用来被交换的加深和发展人家关系的手段。" Indeed, people tend to like those to whom they disclose as well as those who disclose to them, and disclosure intimacy typically increases as relationships develop." 确实，人们往往喜欢那些开诚布公的或者对自己讲很多的人，通常将亲密讲出来人际关系会更加牢固。 | 
