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The annoying habit 讨人厌的习惯 We live in a world governed by laws, but also common manners that make everybody’s experience a little bit nicer. Unfortunately, some people skirt these common niceties with annoying habits that can just be jaw-droppingly self-centered. Here’s one of the things I personally find the most bothersome. Let me set the scene, you’re at university, sitting in the library along with hordes of other people trying to get last-minute studying in before the final for a class you decided to put off until it was too late. While trying to cram some information about derivatives or Milton or the hippocampus into your brain, you hear people talking at full volume at the end of one of the tables. People are looking at them with expressions of exasperation and desperation while they continue chatting. 我们在世间的行为受到法律约束，但那远远不够，日常礼仪的约束才让人际交往更加和谐。不幸的是，有些人的习惯偏偏非常讨人厌，极度自我中心，常常不遵守日常礼仪。说说我自己最讨厌的行为。请跟随我进入场景/想象一个情景，你现在是大学生，和一大群同你一样的重度拖延症患者一起，在图书馆中为了期末考试“临时抱佛脚”。正当你竭尽全力地把导数，或者弥尔顿，或者关于海马体的知识塞进脑袋的时候，你听到桌子那头有人在大声说话。尽管大家都愤怒而绝望地看着那边，那群人却依旧旁若无人地聊着天。 | 
