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A great way to get to know someone better is to say something that makes them laugh. 想要更好地了解别人，一个好办法就是说些能让他们发笑的事。 Sharing a few good giggles and chuckles makes people more willing to tell others something personal about themselves, without even necessarily being aware that they are doing so, suggests new research. 新研究显示，分享一些好笑的事会让人更乐意告诉别人自己的私事，甚至当他们这样做的时候，也根本不会意识到这一点。 Alan Gray of University College London discovered the tidbit in a new study recently published in the journal Human Nature. 英国伦敦大学学院（University College London）的艾伦•格雷（Alan Gray）在研究中发现了这一有趣的现象。最近，他的这项研究成果发表在了《人类天性》（Human Nature）杂志上。 According to Gray, the act of verbally opening up to someone is a crucial building block that helps to form new relationships and intensify social bonds. 格雷认为，用言语向他人敞开心扉的行为是帮助人们建立新关系，增强人与人之间社会联系的重要基本要素。 Such self-disclosure can be of a highly sensitive nature — like sharing one’s religious convictions or personal fears — or a superficial tidbit such as one’s favorite type of food. 自我表露的过程具有高度敏感性——好比分享宗教信仰或者害怕之物——或者只是一个流于表面的趣闻，比如最爱的食物类型。 | 
