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These 5 questions are things you should ask each other in order to have a more harmonious, fulfilling marriage together. Knowing the answers to these questions should help make you a better spouse. 在婚前向你的另一半提问以下5个问题，可以促进你们婚后更融洽的相处和更圆满的婚姻。从你的另一半那里了解这些问题的答案会帮助你们成为更好的夫妻。 We don't expect you to do exactly as your partner would like after asking and answering these questions -- after all, their preferences might be completely unreasonable! But it is helpful, at least, to know what their preferences are, so you can be sensitive to them. 我们不希望你完全按照另一半的答案去做---毕竟，他们的喜好可能完全不合理！但是肯定会有用，至少知道他们的喜好你可以心中有数。 1. How much or little can we let ourselves go? 我们能胖或瘦多少？ You may always love your partner, no matter how they look -- that's easy to promise. But attraction is a different beast. Sure, there are some things people can't control (disease-repeated weight gain, genetic hair loss, etc.), but we all have a certain amount of control over the way we look. Do you expect your partner to take pains to fight the aging process, or do you expect that with age (and marriage) comes some amount of inevitable, understandable, and therefore forgivable deterioration? Where along this spectrum do you two lie, and if it's worlds apart, can you meet somewhere in the middle? | 
