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A first date falls into two categories: following up on an introduction, or pursuing personal instincts when asking out someone of your choosing. No matter which approach is taken, first dates can be stressful for both parties. It is normal to be a little nervous as one always wants to put their best foot forward and make a good first impression. The question commonly asked is how to go about planning a date that says "I like you" and "I want to get to know you". In order for your level of interest to be conveyed it is important to show that effort and thought went into setting the right tone for your time spent together. 初次约会一般有两种情况，一是经人介绍，而是由于个人直觉，对自己心仪的对象提出邀约。无论是哪一种情况，第一次约会会让双方都感到颇有压力。人人都希望事情有个美好的开端，给对方留下美好的印象，所以感到些微紧张是很正常的。人们通常会问，要怎么计划这样一场约会，才能告诉对方“我喜欢你”，“我希望更多的了解你”呢?为了传达你的心意，很重要的一点是，你应该让对方知道自己为了这场初次约会进展顺利，投注了许多心思和气力。 Begin the process with a phone call. As old school as it may sound, texts, tweets or emails just don't cut it as a way to ask someone out. Direct communication where conversation can flow back and forth is still king. 首先，给对方去一个电话，这虽然看起来有点老土，可是，当你想约某人出去的时候，发短信、微博或者邮件都不如电话直截了当。双向的对话和直接交流仍然是王道。 | 
