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I am not suggesting that any of the following ideas will totally fix your mental and emotional pain from being single on Valentine’s day. I am suggesting they will help, probably more than you think. Resolve to try a few this year: 我不是在暗示以下的想法会完全治愈你作为单身狗过情人的、精神上和情绪上伤痛。我就是在建议，它们可能会比你想的更有治愈里。今年，就试试吧： 1.Watch movies that celebrate friendship rather than romance. Examples include the Lord of the Rings trilogy, Beaches, Friends With Money, Thelma and Louise, Mystic Pizza, Fried Green Tomatoes, Steel Magnolias, Boys on the Side, How to Make an American Quilt, and the Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood. 看一些歌颂”基友情”而不是“异性恋大好”的电影。举些例子，比如像《指环王三部曲》、《情比姊妹深》、《老友有钱》、《末路狂花》、《现代灰姑娘》、《油炸绿番茄》、《钢木兰花》、《潇洒有情天》、《恋爱编织梦》，还有《丫丫姐妹们的神圣秘密》。 2.Call an old friend just to say I love you. I love to do this when loneliness gets too much. If they answer, we always have a lovely chat. If they don’t, I leave a voicemail telling them I just called to say I love you. 打电话给一个老友，只为告诉他/她“我爱你哟~”。我喜欢在孤寂汹涌而来的时候这么做。如果他们接了电话，我们就长期拥有了一个孤单热线。如果他们没接，我会给他们留个语音留言，告诉他们，我打这个电话仅仅是为了说句“我爱你”。 | 
