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When you are traveling solo, it’s not always a breeze to strike up a conversation with a stranger. 独自旅行时，与陌生人攀谈并不总是那么容易。 In fact, how do you meet other single travelers or locals in the first place? And if you’re looking for friendship — or even something more — how do you ensure that amid all the fun you don’t neglect to take safety precautions? 实际上，第一个问题是：你如何遇到其他单身旅行者或当地人？如果你想交个朋友——甚至谈场恋爱——你怎么确保在享乐的同时没有忽视安全防范？ Before we get to tactics, it’s helpful to know that you are likely to be rewarded for overcoming apprehensions about approaching someone new when you’re on the road. 在我们讲述具体策略之前，知道下面这一点可能会对你有所帮助：在旅途中克服接近陌生人的恐惧很可能会给你带来回报。 “Its easy to imagine all the ways things will go badly or believe that this person doesn’t want to connect,” said Nicholas Epley, a professor of behavioral science at the University of Chicago Booth School of Business. But if you reach out, he continued, “almost everybody reaches back.” “人们很容易去想像各种尴尬场面，或者认为对方不想交谈，”芝加哥大学布思商学院的行为科学教授尼古拉斯·埃普利(Nicholas Epley)说。他继续说道，但是如果你主动攀谈，“几乎所有人都会回应”。 | 
