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There are relationships, and there are entanglements. Read on to discover the four signs that mean you're not experiencing the kind of real love you truly deserve -- and what to do about it。 美好的恋情总会有瓶颈的时期。看看下面四个信号对比一下，测测自己是否真正处在值得的恋情之中吧-顺便看看如何化解危机。 A relationship is one in which both people are free to be themselves, yet there is no shortage of intimacy. No fear that doing what you love or being who you are or taking time for yourself will drive the other person away. 恋爱指的是双方都可以随心所欲地做自己，同时又不失亲密。不用担心做自己喜欢的事或者做真实的自己会把另一半吓跑。 In a relationship, neither person needs the other to "complete" them. Both people are awake to themselves, their feelings and thoughts, and are open to the flow of love and attention with one another. 在恋爱中，我们不需要去迎合对方。双方都是忠于自己的感受、想法，也可以时不时流露出对对方的爱意和关注。 It's about two equals celebrating together rather than "needing" something from the other. 这是两个平等独立个体的组合，而绝不是从自己的需求出发相互索取。 Signs You're in an Entanglement 恋爱瓶颈期的征兆 Entanglements may look like a relationship on the surface. You might spend a lot of time together, you've met each other's friends and family, and people refer to you as a "couple." | 
