If only there were a way to make all the rude people go and live on an island together so we didn’t have to deal with them! 要是能有办法把所有粗鲁的人都赶到一个岛上该有多好,这样我们就再也不用跟这种人烦了! But wait a sec. There are smarter ways to deal with rude people! Here are my top 10. 不过也别担心,对付粗鲁的人不乏妙招,请看下面这10个方法吧。 1. Remember, sometimes the rude person is you. 1. 别忘了你自己可能也有粗鲁的时候。 Maybe not today, but there’ve been times when you were rude. And you’re not a bad person. So next time somebody’s rude to you, remember that they’re human just like you, and rudeness alone doesn’t mean they’re a bad person either. 不一定是今天,但你肯定有过失礼的时候。不过这并不表示你品行恶劣。所以,下次要是有人冒犯你,别忘了他们跟你一样也是普通人,不要单凭粗鲁就认定他们是坏人。 2. Don’t take it personally (even if it’s personal). 2. 即便真是针对你个人的,也不要太往心里去。 When someone’s rude—especially if they’re making personal comments about you—it’s easy to get upset. But you have a choice about how you react. Take the power out of their rudeness by choosing to treat it as their problem, not your problem. |