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Effective communication is one of the most important life skills we can learn—yet one we don't usually put a lot of effort into. Whether you want to have better conversations in your social life or get your ideas across better at work, here are some essential tips for learning to to communicate more effectively. 有效的交流技巧是我们可以学习的、生活中最重要的技巧之一。——但是我们一般都没有把大量的精力放到这方面上。无论你是想在社交中能更好的交流，还是想在工作中更有效地把想法表达出来，都来看看下面的这些能帮你更有效交流的小技巧吧。 10. Watch Your Body Language 10.注意自己的身体语言 You tell your partner you're open to discussion but your arms are crossed; say you're listening but haven't looked up from your phone yet. Our non-verbal and non-written cues often reveal more than we think they do. Whether it's how you make eye contact or how you hold yourself during a video interview, don't forget that you're constantly communicating even when you're not saying a word. One strange way to tap into your body for better communication? Think about your toes. Or adopt a power pose if you need to boost your confidence before a big talk. Or learn how to read other people's body language so you can respond appropriately. 你告诉搭档你愿意讨论，但是你的胳膊却交叉在一起；你在听，但是却在低着头看手机。我们的非语言和非文字的线索往往比想象中泄露的信息还要多。无论是进行眼神交流，还是在视频采访中控制自己，都不要忘了，即便你一言不发，也是在不断地交流。想不想知道一种用身体来更好交流的奇怪方式？那就是想想你的脚趾头。或在进行一次重要谈话前，使用能提升自信的姿势。也可以学习一下如何读懂他人的身体语言，这样你能恰当地回应。 | 
