10分钟就能学会的25条生活小贴士(上) 14. Build a network. 建立起交际网。 Become people's information source, and let them be yours. A former coworker might have gotten a new position at that company where you've always wanted to work. Go to them for a beer, and ask about the company. It's all about connections and information. 做别人的信息源,也让别人成为你的信息源。以前的同事可能在你心仪已久的公司里找到了新工作。和他们一起喝一杯,然后询问那个公司的情况。一切都是关于联系和信息。 15. If you are angry at the person in front of you who's driving like a grandmother ... 如果你对前面开车慢得像老太婆的人很生气…… Pretend it is your grandmother — it will significantly reduce your road rage. 就当那个人是个老太婆吧——这能大大减轻你的路怒症。 16. Stand up straight. 站直。 No slouching, hands out of pockets, and head held up high. It's not just a cliche — you literally feel better and people around you feel more confident in you. 不要没精打采的,把手从裤兜里掏出来,把头抬高。这不仅是陈词滥调——你真的会觉得更好,你身边的人也会对你有更多的信心。 17. Avoid saying "I think" and "I believe" unless absolutely necessary. |