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Maturity is a state when an individual is in a position to realize what is happening around him/her, to understand the rationale behind those happenings and does not get too elated nor too depressed by final results. Thus he/she is in a position to absorb pressures and remain unperturbed by the situations around him/her. You can realize you have now matured by looking for following signs: 成熟是一种状态，当你突然意识到周围发生的一切，能够理解这些事情背后的缘由，不会因结果得意洋洋抑或一蹶不振，你就成熟了。你已经能够化解压力，不被周围的环境所干扰。看看下面的信号判断一下自己成熟没有吧： 1. You listen more and talk less 多听少说 When we realize as human beings we are built to hear more (because we have two ears) and speak less (we have one mouth/tongue); we gain more information and whatever we speak will be based on substantial reasoning. This will provide a glimpse of a thinking individual/rational person to the audience. Thus you shall be perceived more seriously, and in turn this will add to your confidence. It is the first sign of you becoming a more matured individual than what you were before. 当我们意识到作为人，我们需要多听（因为有两个耳朵）少说（只有一张嘴/一根舌头），我们就能获得更多的信息，说出的话也能基于靠谱的推断，这会让听众觉得这个人很有思想和逻辑性。这样你就会被认为是个更靠谱正经的人，同时还能增加自己的自信。这可以当成是你和以前相比变得成熟的第一个标志。 | 
