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The modern versions of “I’m afraid of commitment” and “It’s not you, it’s me.” 分手时烂大街的话 “我害怕承诺”以及“不是你的问题，是我的”，现在有了与时俱进的新版本： 1. “I feel like we’re moving too fast.” “我觉得我们节奏太快了点。” If a person says this and then suggests slowing down a little bit (maybe seeing/texting each other less during the week or whatever) then they are probably reacting accordingly to things getting serious more quickly than they’d like. 如果一个人说这句话，并希望能够慢下来（比如一周只见面或联系一次等等诸如此类），有这种做法的人往往觉得这段感情变认真的速度超出了他们的想象。 Fine! Understandable! If a person says this and then suggests no longer seeing each other at all (or [ugh] “taking a break”) then they’ve realized that they are no longer interested in this budding relationship but would rather end on infuriatingly open-ended terms than risk confrontation. 好吧！可以理解！如果有人这么说，并且建议大家最近不要见面（或者说，“休息一下”），那么他们应该已经意识到对这段感情不再那么感兴趣，希望能顺其自然的结束甚至不用冒着面对面分手的风险。 2. “I don’t want to hurt you.” “我不想伤害你”。 | 
