1. Quality of Interpersonal Interactions 人际交往的质量 We are defined by how we treat other people. Each interaction with another individual reflects a personal belief system and code of morality. How do you treat strangers? How do you treat the people closest to you? These observations give great insight on a person’s character. 别人是通过我们如何对待他人来了解我们的。和他人的每一次交互,都反映了个人的信仰体系和道德守则。你如何对待陌生人?你如何对待最亲近的人?通过这些可以深入了解一个人的个性。 A high-quality person treats all people with respect, no matter the relationship. A stranger deserves an equal amount of respect as a longtime friend. Even if a person has wronged a high-value individual, the wrongdoer is still treated with respect. High-value people understand that disrespecting others is the equivalent of disrespecting the self. 高素质的人尊重所有的人,无论他们之间的关系如何。陌生人也应该像老友那样得到平等的尊重。即使有人不公正地对待高价值的人,高价值的人也仍然尊重他。高价值的人明白,不尊重别人,就等于不尊重自我。 2. Quality of Relationship to the Self 自我关系的质量 Think about your interactions with yourself; the voice in your head. How reassuring is it? How positive? How cruel? A high-value person has an honest and fair relationship with himself. |