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Millions of divorces take place all around the world every year. Many of them happen because one of the partners has changed significantly. Some of them happen because of the chronic cheating habits of either partner. 全世界每年都有成千上万对夫妻离婚。其中许多婚姻破裂是因为其中一方变心了。还有的是因为其中一方存在长期欺骗行为。 But most of them happen because they were not in the right marriage to begin with. Those marriages took place because the partners didn’t (or couldn’t) give as much thought to their decision (of getting married) as they should have. 但大多数人会离婚是因为他们一开始就没有选择正确的婚姻。他们会结婚是因为夫妻双方没有（或者没能）对结婚这个决定做出应有的思考。 They didn’t ask the right questions. They weren’t ready for the right evaluations (of themselves and their partners) and couldn’t anticipate the profound change that marriage would bring to their lives. 他们没有问自己正确嗯嗯问题。他们没有准备对自己和另一半做出正确的评估，也无法预测婚姻将会对他们的生活带来的巨大改变。 Are you thinking of getting married? In that case, have you made a careful assessment of your relationship to check if it is marriage-ready? 你正在考虑结婚吗？如果是的话，你是否已经仔细评估过你们的关系，看看是否已经为结婚做好准备了呢？ | 
