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Some people instantly make us feel important. Some people instantly make us feel special. Some people light up a room just by walking in. 有些人总能令人感到他们很重要。有些人总能令人感到他们很特别。有些人仅仅走进房间就能让整个房间都充满欢乐。 We can't always define it, but some people have it: They're naturally charismatic. 我们很难解释，但有些人就是这样：他们天生就充满魅力。 Unfortunately, natural charisma quickly loses its impact. Familiarity breeds, well, familiarity. 很不幸，天生的魅力会很快就失去影响。熟悉总是会造成，唔，熟悉。 But some people are remarkably charismatic: They build and maintain great relationships, consistently influence (in a good way) the people around them, consistently make people feel better about themselves--they're the kind of people everyone wants to be around...and wants to be. 不过有些人非常富有魅力：他们能建立并维持很好的人际关系、总能影响身边的人（正面影响）、总能让别人自我感觉更好——他们是那种人人都想和他们在一起……而且人人都想成为的那种人。 Fortunately we can, because being remarkably charismatic isn't about our level of success or our presentation skills or how we dress or the image we project--it's about what we do. 所幸的是我们可以成为那样的人，因为构成超凡魅力的并不是我们的成功程度、演讲能力又或是我们的穿着或外表——而是我们的所作所为。 | 
