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Signs You Might Be in an Unhappy Relationship 这些迹象表明你们的恋情并不开心 1. There's no fight left. 1. 你们不再争吵。 Common sense would pinpoint having too many arguments as a relationship red flag. And while that may be true, so is the opposite: "Healthy relationships have conflict," says Stephanie Wijkstrom, a psychotherapist and founder of The Counseling and Wellness Center of Pittsburgh. "A normal dose of disagreement shows that you are investing in the relationship." 常识告诉你：争吵太多表明你们的恋情出现了问题。即便这可能是事实，但反过来也是如此：“争吵是健康恋情的一部分，”匹兹堡咨询与健康中心的心理治疗师兼创始人史蒂芬妮·维克斯特姆（Stephanie Wijkstrom）说道。“正常的纠纷表明你对这段感情投入了时间和精力。” Without that, the emotional climate of a relationship can become stagnant. "When a couple isn't bickering or disagreeing at all, that's a sign that both members of the couple have given up and are feeling hopeless about the impact they can have on each other and about the chances of the relationship changing," says Lyons. 若完全没有争吵，你们的恋情就会停滞不前。“当情侣不再争吵或不再出现分歧，这或许表明双方已不抱希望，觉得自己无法对另一半产生影响，无法改变这段感情，”里昂（Lyons）说道。 | 
