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Ever feel like you’ve gone and said too much? Again? Maybe you kill a joke or ruin a great moment. Foot in ze ol’ mouth. 是不是觉得自己又说太多了？也许你不经意就会毁了一个笑话，或是完全破坏了气氛。要记住祸从口出呐。 Well listen up. And shut up. Not many people know it but shutting up can be the trump card in a lot of situations. 我们应该多听，不该说话的时候学会闭嘴。不是每个人都知晓这一点，但沉默在很多场合下的确是最好的王牌。 Shutting up helps you appear wise and avoid conflict. In general, it can make life easier which it turn makes you a happier person. Here’s how and when to just shut up. 沉默会让你更加智慧，避免纷争。总而言之，它能让生活更加简单，让你成为更快乐的人。下面将告诉你在什么时候应该学会沉默。 1) When people are gossiping 1. 大家在八卦时 People love gossiping and many of us can’t help it. It’s refreshing. It makes life seem a bit better. But the next time you hear gossiping, especially about your friends, try holding your tongue. Listen to what the gossiper is saying, it may reveal a lot about both parties. Instead of being like “yeahh, she is a b*$$#,” try saying “well, she’s trying her hardest” and see what the response is. Deny yourself that tiny pleasure from putting someone else down. | 
