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When should you move from dating to being husband and wife? Every relationship is different. You should get married when YOU feel the time is right. Not the society, not your family, You. 哪个时间是从情人转变成夫妻的最佳时间？每段关系都有不同的答案。在你感觉对的时间，你就结婚吧。这不是由社会或你的家庭决定，而是由你决定。 You should get married when: 当你有以下想法时，你就结婚吧： You are totally, madly, completely, head-over-heels in love. Not one-sided, only when it is reciprocated. You feel she is The One. There is no one better than her for you. No one gets you like she does. You feel you’ve been in the dating circle long enough and if you let her go, you’d be the biggest idiot on earth. 你真的是完完全全疯狂地不可救药地深深地陷入爱情之中。不是单方面爱恋，而是双方互动的爱恋。你感觉她就是你生命里的那一位了，没有谁比她更适合你，没有谁能如此占据你的心房。你觉得你的爱情长跑已经足够了，而且觉得如果自己放她走，自己就是世界上最蠢的笨蛋。 You are mature enough to understand what marriage really means. When you’re ready for real commitment. When you are responsible enough to take care of another person, support her financially, and emotionally. You should understand that it is a big move and would mean sharing your life with someone till the day you die. | 
