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1. Say “thank you.” Expressing gratitude to others for the things that they do for us makes them feel appreciated. That makes them more likely to do good work for us in the future. We then know we can count on them. It’s a win-win. So make a New Year’s resolution to actively thank people for a job well done – no matter how busy you may be. 1. 说“谢谢”。向他人为我们做的事表达感谢会让他们觉得被欣赏。这让他们在将来更愿意帮我们，成为我们的依靠。这是双赢的局面。所以不管你有多忙，也要在新年许下“积极感谢别人完成工作”的愿望。 2. Give out compliments. When we compliment others, we can build rapport and create a meaningful connection with them. But they won’t have this effect unless they are genuine. If we actually feel jealous, for example, our compliments will fall flat. Others will notice, through our non-verbal communication (such as a fake smile or lack of eye contact). Remember that elevating others does not mean bringing ourselves down–whether or not we are on the same team. 2. 表达赞美。当我们赞扬别人时，可以和他们建立融洽的关系和有用的联系。但切记，除非出自真心实意，不然是不会起效的。比如我们实际上很嫉妒，那赞美就达不到预期效果。别人也会通过你的非语言信号注意到（比如假笑或缺少眼神交流）你是否在真诚地表达赞美。要记住鼓舞别人并不是贬低自己——不管你们是否在同一团队中工作。 | 
