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You’ve probably heard the old saying “The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.” 你肯定听过这样一句谚语：“篱笆外的草总是分外绿”，别人的似乎总比我们好。 Perhaps you feel like it’s true. You look at other people’s lives, and you envy them. They seem to be doing so much better than you. They’ve got a great job. Lots of money. A happy home life. They seem to have it all. And you can’t help wishing that you did, too. 也许你觉得这句话是对的，你会羡慕嫉妒别人的生活，觉得他们什么都比你做得好：体面的工作、丰厚的收入、幸福的家庭，他们好像什么都有了。所以你忍不住希望：要是自己也能拥有这些就好了。 But none of us ever really know what it’s like to live someone else’s life. No-one’s life is perfect – whatever it looks like from the outside. 但我们从来无从知晓，如果让我们去过别人的生活会是什么样子。也许从外面看来很美好，但没有人的生活是完美无缺的。 Plus, it’s a safe bet that some of your friends are looking at your life and thinking very similar things. Whatever state your life is in, you’ve got a lot of good things. You just need to recognize them again. 而且我完全可以肯定，有一些你的朋友也和你一样，看着你的生活想着类似的事情。其实不管你现在的生活状态如何，你都已经拥有了很多美好的事情，你只需要重新认识自己的生活。 | 
