College is your chance to see what you’ve been missing, both in the outside world and within yourself. Use this time to explore as much as you can. 上大学给了你一个机会去正视自己的缺点,这当中既包括你在走进这个社会时欠缺了什么,也包括你个人的缺陷。你要利用这段时间,尽可能去探寻自我。 Take classes in many different subjects before picking your major. Try lots of different clubs and activities. Make friends with people who grew up much poorer than you, and others much richer. Date someone of a different race or religion. (And no, hooking up at a party doesn’t count.) Spend a semester abroad or save up and go backpacking in Europe or Asia. 你要上各种课程,然后再选定自己的专业。你应该尽可能尝试不同的社团和社会活动。既要结交家境远不如你的同学,也要结交出身比你优裕得多的同学。试试跟不同人种或信仰不同宗教的同学约会。(还有,在派对上亲热一番做不上正式交往。)用一个学期出国看看,或者存够了钱,去欧洲或亚洲背包旅游。 College is also a chance to learn new things about yourself. Never been much of a leader? Try forming a club or a band. 读大学还为你提供了一个机会,去了解你不知道的自我。过去你没怎么担任过领导者的角色?你可以试着组建一个社团或乐队。 小编摘抄了几段其他大学生的经验之谈,希望可以给新生们一些借鉴。 |