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The topic of trust is an important factor in all matters of the heart — and here’s why. Men lie to women. Women lie to men. And most people agree that some lying is even necessary — to avoid petty squabbles and to grease the wheels of a relationship。 感情最重信任——但事实是，男女之间往往充满谎言。不过，很多人也认为，谎言是避免无谓的争论、缓和人际关系的必要手段。以下就是男人最常说的七个慌 1. “Me? I graduated top of my class。” “我读书的时候，成绩顶呱呱！” This is a classic case of the runaway male ego, designed to present a man in the best light and impress a woman. When the lies continue into marriage, it’s not long before the truth will out。 这句经典谎言恰恰诠释了潜在的大男子主义，为男人在女人心中留下了完美形象。不过，一旦结婚，真相不久便会水落石出。 2. “Of course I like your friends!” “我当然喜欢你的朋友！” A man I know told his girlfriend, “You’re a great cook — much better than my mother。” In fact, his mother is a chef at a well-known New York restaurant. Fortunately for him, by the time his girlfriend discovered the truth — when they dined at his mother’s restaurant — she was so in love that she forgave his overzealous compliment。 我的某个朋友跟他的女友说：“你的厨艺真了不得，连我妈都赶不上你。”其实，他老妈是纽约某家著名餐厅的大厨。幸运的是，当他们在那家餐厅吃饭一切真相大白的时候，女孩已经深深爱上了他，原谅了他的溢美之词。 | 
