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无论是什么原因，两夫妻总是吵架总是不好的。那么如何才能健康的经营好婚姻呢？ "A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love" - Pearl S. Buck Look for the good 看到对方好的一面 When you fell in love you only see the good in your partner. You were not selfish. To keep your love alive, accept him for what he is just like when you were infatuated. Love him for what he is instead of thinking only of your needs.Don't over react to his negative behavior and weaknesses. Learn to forgive and get rid of grudges. Allow your partner the freedom to be the way he is completely and unconditionally。 当你沐浴在爱中时，你只能看到对方好的一面。你一点儿也不自私。当你被爱冲昏头脑时，你为了维持爱会接受对方的一切。当一切归于平静，请要爱他原来的样子，而不是你想要对方成为的样子。不要对于对方不好的行为或者弱点有过激的反应。学会体谅和原谅，不要有怨意。给你的另一半自由去完全的做自己。 Communicate 沟通 Talk and listen but avoid nagging. Never let a day pass without discussing and communicating. Share your problems with him and tell him yours. Talk about dreams, goals and love. Don't bring your anger to the next day. Resolve it or forget about it。 沟通倾听，不要碎碎念。不能一天不沟通交流。与对方分享自己的困扰。分享自己的梦想、目标、爱与喜好。不要把气带到第二天。解决你的怒气，或者忘了它。 | 
