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所有事情的第一次总是最让人激动。不管你是新工作的第一天上班还是第一次约会，你总是能记得这些“第一次”。不仅仅因为这些第一次承载着许多兴奋，还出于对一些事情的担忧。你或许会担心自己能否有个好的表现，或者其他人在你表现不好的时候会怎样看你。为了不让自己陷入那样的担忧之中，我们如何能够让第一次变得激动人心？ 以下几个步骤可以让你更好地应对新环境，不再感觉到焦虑。 1. Ditch the perfection 放弃完美 On very rare occasions can you manage to do something perfectly the first time you do it, so when you do something for the first time, it is time to ditch the notion of perfection。 I remember the first time I drove a car in traffic after getting my driver's license. I was very nervous and I was overwhelmed by the traffic — my driving style showed that I wasn't a very confident driver. Now I'm much more experienced as a driver. Although I still don't consider myself a perfect one, I'm much more confident behind the wheel than what I was when I started。 In general, it is useless to strive for perfection when you do something for the first time. You are setting the bar too high and you just feel bad when you are not able to meet the level you have set。 Also, perfection is just another way to procrastinate, so trying to be perfect is just a waste of time. You want to pursue excellence instead。 | 
