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6 Stop caring about what everyone else has. 比上不足比下有余 When you catch yourself comparing yourself to a colleague, neighbor, friend, or someone famous, stop! Realize that you are different, with different strengths – strengths these other people don’t possess. Take a moment to reflect on all the awesome abilities you have and to be grateful for all the good things in your life. 当你发现自己开始跟同事，邻居，朋友或者一些名人比较的时候，赶快停下来！你要认识到自己的与众不同，你也拥有那些人没有的长处。花点时间思考你有哪些特长，并且对生活中所有的美好报以一颗感恩的心。 The problem with many of us is that we think we’ll be happy when we reach a certain level in life — a level we see others operating at – your boss with her corner office, that friend of a friend who owns a mansion on the beach, etc. Unfortunately, it takes awhile before you get there, and when you get there you might have a new destination in mind. 我们之中大多数人的问题在于，总会觉得混到一定的地位（觊觎许久的，他人所在的地位），我们才会过得开心，比如老板那样拥有一间转角办公室，又比如像朋友的朋友那样拥有一套海景别墅。不幸的是，你需要一段时间的努力才能达到他们的境界，而在你达到后，你可能又会野心勃勃地向往新的目标。 | 
