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Whether you've chosen the single life or are between relationships, you can build a terrific solo life. And, if you're looking to attract true love, turns out that having a terrific single life is just the thing to do. 不管你是有意选择单身，或者只是暂时“名花无主”，你都可以有一个人的精彩生活。如果你正在寻觅真爱，就更需要学会如何一个人过的好了。 1. Community What it means: Building a community means having people who are there for you, people who care about you and your life. Why it matters: Many singles feel lonely and disconnected, which affects their quality of life. They act as if the only way to get their emotional needs met is through a partner. Not true. Members of your community can meet many of your needs, and the more your needs get met, the less needy and the more attractive you become -- and the less you need a partner. What you can do: Build community by volunteering or by joining clubs around subjects that interest you. 1. 团体 是什么：建设一个团体意味着身边有关心你的那么一群人。 为什么：很多单身人士感到孤独以致影响了他们的生活质量。他们以为找个伴侣是满足情感需要的唯一方式。不。其实团体中的成员也能满足你的很多需求。你的需求越是得到满足，你就会变得越有魅力——并且越不需要一个伴侣。 | 
