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1. Don’t worry about your self-image. We all have an image of ourselves, how we think we appear to others. It’s usually wrong because we just don’t know what other people think about us, and so it’s not worth worrying about. 不要顾虑自我形象。 人人心中都有自我形象，也就是我们认为自己在别人眼中的样子。不过这个形象往往是错的，因为我们其实并不知道别人到底怎么看自己，所以很容易杞人忧天。 2. Give up trying to find yourself. A lot of people say, ‘I need time to find myself, to work out who I am.’ This is one way to give yourself a neurosis because there’s nothing to find. You have your capabilities; you may be a cook or a chemist or a charity worker and nothing can take that away. 放弃自我寻找 很多人说，我需要时间寻找自我，来认清自己到底是谁。其实这只会让你变得神经兮兮，因为并没有什么好找的。你有你的技能，你是个厨师、化学家或者慈善工作者，没有什么能改变这个事实。 3. Celebrate your uniqueness. Every human being is different, unique. Nobody has quite the same take on things as you do. This is a marvellous feeling to enjoy. At the same time we have to understand that others have a different take too. It means we’re not necessarily right, and it makes us more tolerant. 悦纳自己的与众不同 | 
